PSA: not everyone is poly. If you're in a poly relationship, and you feel dissatisfaction with having multiple partners, being poly probably isn't for you.
I mean your partners could also suck but 🤷
But yeah trust me if you're dissatisfied it will begin to grate at you and your partners will grow to resent you, too.
Of course, I'm still poly. But I figured that one out a long ass time ago.
Also if you're not poly and you try to get with someone who is poly, that's pretty much begging for trouble down the line. Yeah sometimes it works out. But it ain't ever worked out for me, I'll tell you that much.
@Elizafox I'm not poly but I'm with a poly partner ... Except actually I'm not really sure if I'm not poly, anymore, so ...
*massive shrug*
@KS I don't think it's obligatory to actually do that. I say have whatever relationship structure you want.
@Elizafox I don't really know, our relationship is super open and always has been, and I already don't comprehend the "traditional" sort of relationships tying you permanently to one person
But at the same time I do not feel capable of providing the same level of deepness as my relationship with Ras with anyone else, despite having many other friends that I do love