@KS I feel this too, also in discussions it can cause a great amount of confusion as to what the object is (i forget the word for a word-thing (that is referred to))

@KS I will admit that I'm not entirely comfortable either, but I'm starting to feel more ok about it given that I know... something like 5 or 6 people using "it/its" pronouns (including one in my polycule).

Also, I've come to realise that it's not really my comfort that matters.

@KS tbh i agree and that's probably the one time where i would stick with "they/them" instead