pronouns discussion, this is not intended to be a subtoot to any one person but just me talking in general
is it weird to be very uncomfortable when someone's pronouns are it/its?
too many times I saw others getting yelled at for it/its being "dehumanizing and disgusting" and that's made me very averse to using those pronouns to refer to anybody, and I just try to dodge pronouns entirely when that's the case (always using second person, etc)
@KS I feel this too, also in discussions it can cause a great amount of confusion as to what the object is (i forget the word for a word-thing (that is referred to))