Yes, brother, I'm fully aware of the fact that my grandfather has at most a couple more days to live.
That still doesn't mean that I can take an abrupt 3,000 mile plane trip to the opposite side of the country.
Please stop being so aggressive at me for fuck's sake. You're just adding stress to an already painful situation, and it's physically making me hurt right now from too much stress at once.
@KS hey. condolences. if you need to, block their number.
it's unreasonable to put that kind of pressure on you. if they wanted to help, they could offer, say, some video call (if your grandfather is capable). harassing you about something you can't change is just a shit move.